Hey M Girls!
We have a BRAND NEW celeb advice column on mmm-mag.com. Each day at 8:00 PM/EST we'll post a reader question and have a different star answer it!! Today, we have Sonny with a Chance's Tiffany Thornton talking about how to deal with people spreading rumors and gossiping!
M Reader DemiLovatoLuver8 asked:
My BFF of 6 years has been gossiping and spreading rumors non-stop and I can't stand it anymore! She ignores me all the time and if she does talk to me, she's really mean. She knows I've been bullied before and I'm super sensitive about it but she does it to me now! She doesn't understand me and doesn't even try to make time for our friendship. To top it all off, my other friends are hanging out with her even though they know what she's doing to me. I feel so left out and alone. What do I do?
And Tiffany's answer is:
"I think a lot of times people judge others out of their own insecurities and it's hard to deal with their judgments. But instead of being angry at those people I think you just need to realize that it's sad for them to feel the need to speak badly about you or anyone else. It usually means there's something inside of themselves that they don't want to confront so they feel the need to point out the flaws in other people. When you're happy with yourself deep down, you have more of a positive outlook. But when you're not happy with yourself, you have a negative outlook on other people. So try to ignore them and hope that those people find a different kind of happiness in their lives!"
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